Weekend-Engagement writing topics: Cheat and confession (one)
Cheat and confession (one)
Your partner has an affair but eventually confesses to you and wants to work it out with you. What do you do and why? A post of 300+ words is required using your own photos if possible.
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It is usually said that shit happens, and I do get it, so when someone errs, we got to forgive because people make mistakes.
I also hear people say cheating is never a mistake, it is a choice, they may or may not be right because before we do something, our mind tells us and analyzes what we are about to do and sends it to our conscious and subconscious before and after the events takes place.
So, it's in our place to take out time to dissect the advantage and disadvantages of what we are about to do before we do it and it's in our place to dissect after the events take place. Now, if what we did was right or wrong, what we do or the actions we take after the events decides if we are remorseful about it or not.
For my partner who cheated to decide to gather up the courage to confess to me, it means that he is remorseful but it doesn't mean, I wouldn't have to consider why he cheated at first and give him a piece of my mind because I am hurt and disappointed because I trusted him.
I am going to walk out on him after he is done with the confession because I know I have anger issues and may spill words and take actions I may later regret which at that moment of anger may seem right but later could be termed bad.
Then, if he is so sorry, he has to start proving himself because I would be worried, and afraid that he might likely go back to his vomit along the line. For my kind of person, I am going to go days trying to digest, the reasons for his cheating, how, when and so much more and that could make me fall into depression along the line.
But one thing that I am sure of his I am going to be forgiving him because he told me and did not make me realize it or catch him in the act, but I am going to be needing a whole lot of space to digest all the information and come to a conclusion but I know I am going to forgiving him and not leaving his ass because of one thing, he came out clean but with the condition that if there is going to be a second time, I am going to be leaving his ass for good.
And as a good drama queen, I am surely going to make him work towards winning me back again even though I know I gat him and have forgiven him, just so he knows my forgiveness doesn't come easily.😉
This is my entry to the Weekend-Engagement writing topics: WEEK 164 by @galenkp