Would you ever take back a cheating partner?

I started dating quite late, didn't have the luxury of dating in high school because I was focused on graduating best and I was a role model many and with my teachers having so much faith in me I didn't want to jeopardize that by getting involved with anybody because it has been said times over that dating is a major distraction altogether so avoided it.

I had my first boyfriend just weeks after my final exams, he was an ex-student of my school and we were in contact via Facebook, he was a year one university student at the time, so there wasn't any harm in trying besides I just finished my final exams so I gave it a shoot willing to learn and fall in love instead I got the opposite.

I didn't realize that I had to do some digging if he was a player or had other girlfriends I just jumped at the opportunity of being someone's girlfriend for the first time and that was all that mattered.it took me months after complete dedication to this person to realize I wasn't the only one in his life but I stayed because I felt responsible I felt flawed so I chooses to stay rather than walk away.

The relationship came to an end because he got tired that was the excuse. I moved on to another and same experience all over again it felt like cheating is a norm and I felt it was very ok, I never felt enough for them it felt like something was wrong with me so whatever my boyfriend at the time would do I always take him back because I felt responsible for their cheating besides I get a sorry right?

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It took growing and serious advising from new friends I made when I finally got into the university to realize that I deserved better. I came to understand that someone cheating has nothing to do with you but the persons' attitude and behavior. So anyone cheating is based on insecurities and has nothing to do with the partner not being enough. Because we are more than enough even as an individual

So like the question asked, “Would you ever take back someone who cheated?”

My answer is No

No one should make anyone not feel wanted because I cannot imagine anyone going through the process of knowing your partner picked someone else over you and still taking him back, I believe that once a cheater always a cheater-like experience has shown.

No one should make anyone feel less valuable by cheating, we were all born worthy, worthy of love even when no one can see it, it's true. It is my job to put myself first and walk away from anything that doesn't build me.

I am grateful for my young days and little beginnings of bad relationships Because it has thought me these things;

1. Someone else cheating habit has nothing to do with you and wouldn't reflect on you if you chose to leave.
2. Never tie your value or worth to any relationship, you will never truly know a person completely .
3. Love should never be tagged bad, it is amazing, pure and easy with the right person.
4. Just because your relationships are alway ending badly or your partner are alway cheating doesn’t mean you will never end up with a faithful partner.

This is just my opinion about cheating based on my experience as a teenager.

So what is your take
Would you take back someone who cheated?

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