Esp||Ing- Nuestros hijos necesitan escuchar de nosotros "Un te quiero"
Hola mamás y papás
Los sucesos se fueron dando y en uno de los momentos cruciales de la historia el hijo rebelde, el de las decisiones erradas dijo, y es lo que quiero resaltar, Sólo necesitaba oírle decir "Te quiero".
Mientras veía todo esto pensaba, parece mentira pero para un porcentaje importante de seres humanos resulta ser más fácil ofender, decir palabras vulgares en contra de sus seres queridos que demostrarles amor, pedirles perdón o darles un abrazo. Pareciera que se tiene más coraje para golpear públicamente a alguien que para decir Te quiero en privado a un ser que se ama.
Hay algo que necesitamos tener presente, Nuestros niños necesitan escuchar que los amamos. Eso no es una opción Si aplicamos la fuerza, el maltrato, la frialdad con nuestros niños puede que obedezcan en las primeras de cambio, pero solo lo harán por temor al castigo, no porque sientan que con sus acciones están haciendo infelices a sus padres.
"Te quiero" son dos palabras que encierran fuerza y con la cuales hacemos que nuestros hijos sientan lo importante que son para nosotros, por eso es necesario que las oigan de nosotros a tiempo y fuera de tiempo, cuando fluyan y cuando parezca muy difícil su pronunciación.
Hello mums and dads
Yesterday I was watching a film on TV in which reference was made to communication in the family nucleus and in which the father, as the head of the household, used to think that in order to instil respect and show authority he had to look like a panela of ice, that is to say that showing any kind of affectionate feeling was a sign of weakness.
In time the sons grew up and one of them, with the support of his mother, managed to get ahead and the other, who turned out to be the toughest, took a bad path. Their father, though he suffered for his son's decisions, when he approached him for his opinion or support, he was met with cold and curt responses. His children never heard a thought or a word of encouragement from his mouth.
Events unfolded and at one of the crucial moments in the story the rebellious son, the one with the wrong decisions said, and this is what I want to emphasise, I just needed to hear him say "I love you".
As I watched all this I thought, it seems unbelievable but for a significant percentage of human beings it is easier to offend, to say vulgar words against their loved ones than to show them love, to ask for forgiveness or to give them a hug. It seems that it takes more courage to insult someone publicly than to say "I love you" in private to a loved one.
There is one thing we need to keep in mind, our children need to hear that we love them. That is not an option. If we apply force, abuse, and coldness to our children they may obey at the drop of a hat, but they will only do so out of fear of punishment, not because they feel that their actions are making their parents unhappy.
Children who hear "I love you son" on a daily basis grow up happy, with an excellent level of self-confidence, making them capable of giving love. When we say "I love you" to our children, we also tell them that it is not wrong to make mistakes, that everything has a solution, that despite all the bad things there is always hope. With these two words alone we banish fear from their lives and at the same time we bring peace of mind, well-being, joy and we will be reinforcing their self-esteem.
"I love you" are two words that contain strength and with which we make our children feel how important they are to us, so it is necessary that they hear them from us in time and out of time, when they flow and when it seems very difficult to pronounce them.
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