[Esp- ing] Salud mental infantil -Alerta!! Necesitamos estar Atentos!
Hola , queridos amigos!
Today, while checking social networks I came across a meme, a picture framed in the 80's in which some children were laughing and sharing with their classmates and teachers in the schoolyard while they were cleaning it. They had brooms and other cleaning implements with them and looked calm, happy. What caught my attention when I saw this image was the message it had which said, words more, words less, "This is how we spent our time when we were children, today they could call it child abuse".
I particularly remember my childhood with great happiness. Grandmother had a sweet, malt and soft drink shop in her house, and on more than one occasion (and there were several) when it was time to buy the malt, my brothers and I would help her carry the empty bottles and bring them full to the house. After the job, my grandmother would reward us with what we liked best, from what she had in her cellar. Cleverly, without words, she taught us that we could get what we wanted with effort and work. I don't want to say that she didn't give us sweets at other times, but "these times" became a lesson.
Ayer veía entre las diferentes noticias, una que, aunque han querido disimularla y restarle importancia a nivel mediático, está haciendo mucho ruido y es esta nueva manera de "educación sexual" que se pretende imponer desde arriba (ONU) para ser implementada en la educación formal, en las escuelas a nivel mundial.
I think many of you, like me, have realized that we have come to live in an upside down world. One in which what is good and edifying is called bad or, as the meme said, it is labeled as child abuse and what does not nourish us, what does not leave us anything that is useful for our spiritual or personal growth is called good.
Yesterday I saw among the different news, one that, although they have tried to hide it and downplay its importance in the media, is making a lot of noise and it is this new way of "sex education" that is intended to be imposed from above (UN) to be implemented in formal education, in schools worldwide.
They are trying to promote the idea that sex between teenagers should be seen and treated as something normal and they are talking about it using the term "sexual partner". It is no secret that the media nowadays, especially these platforms where online series and movies are available, shamelessly talk about sex between teenagers and not in an educational way, as they pretend to make it look, but as a "fun" way of self-knowledge and sharing with each other.
Our children are being bombarded from all sides by unconscious people with no values, who use the benefit of managing entertainment platforms to try to change what has been healthy so far, as far as possible, with hollow phrases like "today's world is different" or "we must adapt to the needs of the new generations". Needs that have been sown and fertilized very subtly through social networks, movies, TV, music; which becomes for us as parents an alarm, indicating that we need to be even more attentive than a few years ago.
Today it is very easy to see a baby, and I am not referring to 5 year old children, but to babies of months, being "entertained" by a cell phone because their parents, due to their thousand and one activities, do not have time to attend to them. I have a neighbor who says "I give her the cell phone while I work on the pc or while I am in the kitchen" and when she says it, she does it with a smile of satisfaction without realizing that even in the series or cartoons that her baby is consuming, you can find messages that are not at all beneficial that she is receiving in installments and storing them in her memory.
It has always been said, "children are sponges", because they extract everything from the environment where they live and this is literally so. If your child receives the daily message that tells him that soda is tasty, that it quenches thirst, and that he can use it to accompany his meals and snacks, he will start creating in him the desire to consume that drink and he will do it, even if you have told him that it is not beneficial for his health, why? because that message is the one he receives every day every few minutes and with images too spectacular and attractive to believe that it is bad, as mom says.
In short, the best tool that has been invented to appropriate people's time and influence their minds and even worse, with their permission, is the so called "Necessary cell phone". There, from children to adults can find a perfect virtual world, adapted to their taste at the distance of a button and this is precisely what is alarming about the matter because the mind of our children is very fragile and can be easily penetrated with very well created images, accompanied with music and "cool" characters that attract their attention, making them feel more and more tied to the device; in some of them in such a way, that parents have found the need to take them to a specialist to treat the dependence they have created.
We are responsible for the mental health of our children, let us not allow anyone or anything to usurp our place. There is still time for us to take back the reins of the situation and take our children out to breathe, to separate them from the world of the cell phone and the communicational mutism that this relationship produces. We need to avoid the production of that "virtual endorphin" that keeps them away from life and create the conditions for it to be activated by real events, through their experiences with their loved ones and friends. Let's try to exercise with them, increase physical contact (kisses, hugs), laugh out loud, cultivate prayer and through it, gratitude and then sit down to remember, together with them, those beautiful moments.
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Hola querida @esthersanchez ciertamente debemos tener cuidado con el exceso de modernidad en la forma de criar a los hijos, porque es alarmante ver todas las situaciones que expones. Creo que hay que tener un correcta medida entre la romana vieja y la nueva. Hay algo muy importante y es que descuidar la formación del carácter de los hijos y entregarla a la tecnología es una forma de maltrato, porque su salud mental se está afectando y no en poca medida. Agradezco tu importante participación porque como dije este es un tema que tiene mucha tela que cortar y hay muchas situaciones ligadas con la salud mental de los niños.
Mi abrazo fuerte 🙏💙
Si, realmente muchos creen que el maltrato infantil (sea físico o mental) tiene que ver con los golpes y los insultos o la humillaciones, cuando es verbal. El maltrato como su palabra lo indica es un trato que no es bueno o equivocado, y este trato aunque no se vea (físico) y aunque no se sienta (verbal) y aunque se crea que no hace daño, cala en la mente de nuestros niños de manera tal que puede ocasionar trastornos en su personalidad sin siquiera tocarles un cabello. Como bien dices, es necesario establecer un balance a manera de que el niño tenga opciones y que aprenda realmente darle un buen uso a la tecnología para que ésta no se convierta en su enemiga a posteriori. Reitero mi agradecimiento por la oportunidad, mi querida amiga!
Así mismo es, por eso te doy las gracias de nuevo amiga.
Aquí te va otros abrazo 💙