Perfect romantic couples do not exist, but stable couples do
The perfection in the coexistence of sentimental couples does not exist, nor in any other coexistence, however, our old goal should always aim to become a couple that establishes a stable coexistence, with the least amount of ups and downs possible, that if it can be achieved and for that we must work in the same direction.
Many times some people dedicate great time of their life in looking for the perfection in their couple coexistence and then they make the mistake of wanting to take that aspect to the family coexistence, personally I consider it a great mistake of which we must take care, when we begin the relation everything seems to us of the best thing, nothing bothers us, or maybe we are much more tolerant with our future sentimental partner.
Living together day by day can cause us some emotional fatigue and even more if we seek perfection as a couple, this aspect makes us go after the identification of the defects of both ourselves and our partner, I consider that this is not wrong as long as we use it to improve our relationship and not to make absurd points that jeopardize the relationship, no one can expect to achieve perfection in their coexistence as a couple.
If we can strive to improve our daily coexistence, and this in union, in communication and understanding with the other person who expects the best of our version, and for me it is stability in many ways, but especially in mutual respect, from there part the stability of all sentimental couple, nothing is achieved by making our partner feel bad because generally we will spend a lifetime at his side, and also both will be the cornerstone of the family that we will create.
That no couple wastes time trying to seek perfection, invest their time in their stability, and this basically part in respecting each other, with this principle we will achieve many positive things in our coexistence as a couple and especially family, and as we know our family will always be our greatest treasure in life and it is our responsibility to take care of it because only then we will be the stable family that we want to be and we can achieve it if we want it.