Many times we were lifeguards for people who tried to drown our dreams

It usually happens to all or many of us, we are usually the support for many people to hold on to us and can float in the middle of the storm or in the middle of an ocean of difficulties, who has not gone through this to serve as a lifeguard for people looking for help and we offer it no matter what without expecting anything.

It is very true that when we collaborate with someone and serve as their lifeguard we can take certain risks and everything will depend on the moment and what the person actually does, we trust people who appear to be correct and this leads us to lower our defenses, there are people who specialize in making themselves look correct when in reality they are the opposite, and this they do with the aim of seeking people to support them.

The support like everything can be measured on a scale which can be between two slopes and thus moves from one slope to another, ie, between receiving help and not revibirla, or sometimes yes and sometimes no, everything is based on time and the behavior of people with their actions, although this is not decisive because we can be captivated by people who are shown one way and turn out to be others and when we realize it is often late to react in time.

Although I always think that as long as we have lives it will never be too late to stop being the lifeline of people who end up drowning our dreams or so they believe, our ability and conviction is crucial to leave behind such people who become an anvil in your life, and which seek to take you to the depths of despair while they go afloat, that has happened to me on several occasions and when I realized I have been able to let go of this absurd weight.

Maybe when we realize we are already at the bottom and we just have to push ourselves as hard as possible to the surface and not rest until we achieve it, no one can condition us to their evil desires because we can destroy their negative acts against us, my greatest listening is to be convinced of my abilities and what I really am, that makes me go to the surface despite having fallen to the bottom, we must not stop helping people, but no one can try to drown our dreams.