It is difficult to know who we are going to need

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Although we hear these words every day it is not so easy to internalize them, personally I try to help as much as I can to the people around me, however, it is not always possible to do so, then, someone could tell us that we have acted wrong because in the future we will not know if we will need those people.

So what to do in that case?

The first thing is to make it clear that it is not that we do not want to, it is that we can not for various reasons beyond our control, sincerity would be the best answer when we can not help someone.

What can be seen contradictory is that we can help and we do not want to do it from that point of view if it is applied that we will never know from whom we are going to need help.

Although everything can be handled in the subjective we have to take it to the objective to be clear with our decision and that people are also aware to avoid confusion in the future.

No one is obliged to help others since it will be a totally personal decision, but it will not be obliged to help us and thus be in the same syntony.



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insightful reading this, thank you for sharing your article about it! 😊
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Sometimes you seem to be able to help but refuse to do so, yet you actually can't for a reason that's hidden from everyone except yourself.

We have a saying in Arabic "إلتمس ﻷخيك أربعين عذراً" which roughly means "Find for your brother a 40 excuse (for his actions.)"


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I enjoyed your thoughtful words, thank you for taking the time.

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