MY THURSDAY: A YOUNG GIRL'S RANT!

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November is a great month even if I haven't been able to do the desirable thanks to exams. When I read @young-boss-karin post about engagement and putting in five hours, I just thought of how much I've dropped this month but it's all good. I need to focus on studies if I actually want to pass and while Hive isn't something of obligation, I enjoy doing it a lot. It has become some what of an addiction that I can't go a day without writing unless I am held by other really serious things.

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Yesterday was very exhausting. When I say exhausting I mean both physically, emotionally and mentally. Seriously, women do a lot everyday. I can't even imagine how those mothers in my school joggle school, work and taking care of their home.

Firstly, yesterday's paper wasn't easy at all. I was able to do my best but my brain was already smoking by the time I was done.

Also, after so much pondering, I knew two accounts would be too much to handle. Besides, Hive is the best place to save. And I was running short on cash for my journey to school because the fare just keeps increasing.

I cancelled the opening of the other account and took back my money. Then, I headed straight to the High Court to swear Affidavit requested by the bank for the account I was trying to reactivate. That alone was stressful.

As if it wasn't enough, my emotions were just all over the place. I guessed that time of the month was fast approaching but, I nearly cried while in school listening to a song. I had to really control my self! Then I nearly exploded in anger at a man trying to exploit me at the first court I went to but I'm good at reigning in my emotions. I mean I try my best.

When this man(the exploiter) came to me, from his demeanor and the way he talked, I knew he knew nothing and just wanted my cash. He thought I'm that "clueless tall girl". I'm also sure my face was new and the perfect deal for hungry sharks cause I've never been to that place. Ever.

When he took me into the court room, pretending to go through all formalities and went to get a piece of paper(no pen) after asking me to sit. Inside me, I was waiting for the drama.

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He came back asking what I wanted to do and then proceeded to ask me very silly questions he actually thought were intelligent. God! I nearly had a brain aneurysm from the stupid questions he kept asking.

Then he opened his mouth to tell me to pay an outrageous sum of money. I laughed outloud and excused myself. This man chased after me trying to negotiate. I said "you're just hungry and I'm not your next meal."

That was when my tired brain actually remembered that I do know a lawyer. A really good one at that(facepalm).

I called him and he directed me some place else and told me they would still charge me but not the way that theif did. I finally got it done and thanked the man who assisted me through out the process. Yep. I felt good and almost wanted to see that theif again so I could rub it in his face.

I got to the bank, followed the due process and the woman who's been attending to me was saying how glad she was that I came back. She even tapped her colleague and said, "she's the lady I told you about" before saying to me, "I'm very happy now I saw you."

I don't know what that means but I felt really good at her attitude and attention. It pumped me up and I remembered a book I read of how a positive attitude can go a long way in making someone feel better. Now, I'm just waiting for a message from the bank to confirm reactivation before going back to upgrade the account.

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After I got back yesterday, all I wanted was sleep because I study better at night. It was a fruitful day though no matter how much I felt drained. And I bless God for it.

THANKS FOR READING!!!



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Most people just want to exploit the next person

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He looked like a fish without water... Smh

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Thank goodness you were wise to see through the first man. You are lucky you had a lawyer friend too. Well, those ladies at the bank really made your day by their positivity. Sorry about the stress sweetheart, I am happy you got everything sorted out, regardless. I hope you finish your exams soon, so you can spend more time with us on Hive.

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I just finished today love. Well not totally but I won't stress till 3rd Dec.

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You had to go to court to cancel a bank account or am I misunderstanding? That seems unbelievably challenging, even when one is not hormonal.

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No. Lol
I had to swear Affidavit to change a misinformation on my details...

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