Some People Hide It Behind Their Smiles

almost 2 years ago

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There is a post trending on social media sometimes ago about checking up on your loved or friends because people are going through a lot but they don't let it show on their face. It is not everyone that is comfortable speaking to others about their life issues but it is important to speak to someone when you are going through difficult times for the sake of your mental health.

Smile is a mask that most people use to hide their pain, bitterness, challenge and struggles from others. Most people still try as much as they can to smile when life is not treating them well, just to prevent people from seeing their pain through their eyes. There are people who use social media to show a lavish and enviable lifestyle that people drool about but deep inside they are suffering from one or more challenges.

Sometimes you wonder what the reaction of your friends, family or colleagues that sing your praises would be when you really open up your mind to them so that they can see the lot of things that you are going through. Most couple do not share the pressure they go through at work with their partner because they do not want them to have a feel of their pain. Female students hide the pain they go through from male lecturers away from their parents but try to stay strong. The battle of finance is what a lot of people face everyday with bills to pay here and there but they still Warr

Life is full of ups and downs, they say. There are times when you are overly happy and there are days when you are gloomy. There are times when everything about you seems perfect and there are times it feels like you are the one being punished for the sins of the world. In all of this you still do not let the issues weigh you down by being strong. You wear a smile to conceal your pain so that it won't be obvious to other people in order not to attract people who in their mind are making mockery of you.

If you take a close look at the life of celebrities you will get to know that even though they are popular, have some millions in their bank accounts and attend events smiling while taking selfies with their fans, they often go through a lot in their life that they do not want to share with the world. It could have to be with their relationship, health, finance etc. Despite all these, the fans, press and the public as a whole forgets the fact that they are humans. They talk about their errors and loopholes not considering all they may be going through in their personal lives to stay relevant in their profession.

There is no perfect person on the face of the earth. We all have our individual struggles that we fight in our life but the only good thing is that we have our amazing smile to conceal it from people especially the ones who do not care. This is the more reason it is not always good to be overly envious of people's success and lifestyle. You do not know what the go through to attain that stage of their life.