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To everyone out there who still manage to put on a smiling face despite their struggles and the fact that life hasn't been fair to them, I say a big well done to you. It takes a lot of positivity to be happy even when your life isn't perfect. Your happiness is not only going to affect your life alone but be sure that it will be a source of hope for so many other people out there who knows about your struggles. There are so many people who have lost hope that will believe once again through your positivity even without you knowing it.

Oftentimes, you may be confronted by people who will ask you if you do not face any challenges in your life because you are always filled with positivity. When they see you smile all the time they would think that your life is perfect and devoid of any setbacks, not knowing that you also have your share of life's down moments but what you do differently is that you do not allow them overwhelm you. Knowing how to handle your life issues effectively can make other think that your life is problem free.

When your friends, family or colleagues are experiencing some challenges in their lives they always look up to you to motivate, cheer them up and be that support that they need due to the way that you are always positive about life. It may get to the extent that they do not even care to know about your emotional well-being because they feel you are strong and immune to being broken. Well, you may not care as well because you are always happy to help ensure that your peeps are able to overcome their difficult situations.

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The grevious mistake that we make sometimes is that when we ask someone "How are you?" and they respond with "I am fine" we do not look deep to be sure that they are really fine especially when they respond with a big smile on their face. This is a careless thing to do because most people answer positively in order not to bother you with their problems and sometimes it may be too late before they speak out. It is important to always speak up and seek for assistance when something is eating you up badly. You'd be doing yourself a huge disservice if you are dieing inside and you have refused to let anyone know about it.

It may get to a point that you would not have that smile to conceal your pain again, so it is better to seek help when the need calls for it. You should not let the idea of always staying positive in the midst of challenges hold you back from getting help. Asking people for help does not stop you from smiling and staying positive, it will even make your positivity feel more real and true.

Hey, don't always use your smile to cover up your pains but let it be a source of motivation that will provide succor for you in the journey of life. Your smile is precious. It gives someone out there hope and light. Never stop smiling.

Thank you for your time lovelies.

The post is originally written by me 💕@debbie-ese💕

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