BREAK LOOSE, NO HOLDING BACK

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We do a lot of unspeakable things to ourselves, either knowingly or unknowingly, and one of them is holding ourselves back from going for what we want and by extension making the actualization of our potentials quite difficult. We set unnecessary limits for ourselves that end up truncating any dream or goals that we aim to achieve.

I would not want you to misunderstand the point that I'm trying to make. It is not wrong to set limits for yourself but they must be healthy ones. We often do the opposite by setting unnecessary, outrageous and unwarranted limits for ourselves. There are people who do not want to chase their dream because they do not want to fail. There are people who limit themselves from falling in love because of the fear of heartbreak.

We hold ourselves back from ditching an abusive relationship because we are afraid of losing the person. We hold ourselves back from speaking the truth when everyone else is being dishonest because we don't want them to fight us. What we fail to understand is that in any way that we try to hold ourselves back from doing that which is right we are also holding ourselves back from living our best life. The moment you decide to hold yourself back, you have made a decision to live someone else's life - a life that lacks fulfillment and genuine satisfaction.

Even though you can not always be sure of what you will face in a relationship, you should at least go for it because you'd always need a companion in your life unless you want to live a boring and solitary life. You never can tell, it may be filled with bliss. Even though you don't know what the consequences of saying and standing for the truth will be, you should always stand for it. No matter how you hold yourself back from it you'd always be convinced that it is the right thing to do.

It may be difficult for you at first, you may even fail but don't be discouraged but let it make you stronger. Don't settle for less or try to run away from taking full responsibility for your actions. Free yourself and explore to the fullest without holding yourself back. We are often scared of failing but it should not always be so. If your relationship get toxic, abusive or failed, don't stay there for any reason, you can walk away and be open to exploring after you may have healed. If you get persecuted for standing for the right thing it does not mean you should hold yourself back another time.

Life is full of ups and downs. We should not let the downs of life hold us back from fulfilling our dreams. You will fail, you will get hurt, you will get broken, you will get humiliated, you will be bullied but don't give up. Don't hold yourself back.

Trust you had a great day today?

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The post is originally written by me 💕@debbie-ese💕

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