Distance Relationship

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Don't give up on your precious relationship because of a temporal distance challenges, it will work!!! if you choose to make it work now.


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Few tips on how to strengthen your bond with your partner from a distance:

Be honest
It can be easy to lie in a long distant relationship because you feel he or she isn’t there to prove you wrong. No good relationship can be built on indefinite lies. It's best to be honest with one another. It is better not to talk at all than to tell lies, because lies will not always save you.

Do things together
We are in a technologically - driven society, you may want to consider playing online video games together when you are less busy. You can as well see a movie online together, analyse the movie, you can read the same e-books, engage Skype, video call over the distance. Even though you’re living apart from each other, that doesn’t mean you can’t share bonding experiences.

Avoid too much irrelevant communication
Generally, the measure of what is considered too much communication varies from couple to couple, There are three instances: "the couple that communicates too much on irrelevant matters, those that miscommunicate and the couple that doesn’t communicate enough" You don’t need to compensate for the distance by strangling each other with possessiveness. Remember too much of anything is bad. Essentially! What I think to do in distance relationship is communicate moderately and effectively avoiding too much communication especially unrelevant conversations, rather engage more in logical conversations because some people even spend the whole time quarreling with their partners on phone about past events than discussing relevant and future events.

Keep your outing with friends on a low
Some partners are so jealous and overprotective, They won’t want to hear that you’re hanging out with a friend, be it male or female. Some partners get jealous when you hang out with your friend except if the friend is someone they have met before. They might have the feeling that the friend is teaching you some bad things like cheating, partying, clubbing etc.

Send love messages and gifts on special days
You should see sending of messages and buying of gifts as very important.
Nothing is too little. You only need to know those important days in the life of your partners so as to send them good wishes and gifts. However, it’s not only on special days you can send gifts, you can do so even when your partner least expect, via e-commerce orders etc.

Visit each other
Obviously, you can’t go without seeing each other for the rest of your lives. So, scheduling visits will be necessary. Besides, you guys will have all that much more fun once you see each other again. This help bond stronger eventually.


I hope this encourages you, kindly support, share your views and contributions at the comments session.
Thank you for your time



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Actually am avictim of a distance relationship so I know how exactly it feels missing someone you love for a long time, but communication is always a glue to sticks it together.


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Exactly! Communication is the glue.

And that communication must be very effective and moderate.

Thank you for sharing your precious thoughts @nasri11

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