It's just one choice
Good day hive-naija, I won't say this week's topic is beautiful but whoever picks that topic should just know that your chances of making heaven are now 60%. Back to business, the above sentence was a joke but honestly, these topics put me in a tight corner and make me think deep or deeper because stuff like this happens in real life and most especially the first topic comes with a lot of thoughts because how do you save one and leave the other one to die. Who will you save? Your child who happens to be your future or will you save the mother which is your wife with the thought of probably she would give birth to another and after everything is done the doctor tells you that due to one or two reasons she can't have a child again or probably save the child that time and the child turns on you, hate you and also blame you that you let her mother died just because she can't understand what really happens.
So therefore, after thinking about this thoroughly, I decided to write topic number 2. Believe me when I say this, if I find myself in that type of situation, I'm keeping the baby and here is why I chose that. My reason is one thing we all should consider especially before jumping into a relationship or even getting laid. I have thought about this a lot especially when I want to pick a partner maybe a short time one or a long time one or maybe if it is just for fun.
Other than the beauty and attitude, one thing I look at is the imperfections that she has, and whether I would be able to cope with it if things go south. I know it is not like we know the actual one that would turn to pregnancy or even if you use protection don't forget it's not 100% safe, for just the one reason I won't date or get laid with someone I can't marry or someone that I can't have a child with because what if we are caught in the Crossfire?
One thing again is my mindset and some promises have made to myself, though have been so lucky not to be in that situation where I have to decide or not but trust me if I do find myself there, I'm keeping the baby, even if the lady insist or not keeping it, I can beg to just bear the pain for 9 months and probably vanish after she births the child.
One other funny reason is mostly firstborns of the family are actually not the first pregnancy of either the father or the mother or probably both of them and I don't plan to walk in that part too.
Well, I hope you enjoyed reading this. It is the preacher of love again
I wonder why most of us are writing about pregnancy. Well, the prompt demanded for it shaa.
Oh! You haven't even experienced it. Seriously, don't plan to have a partner for they fun if it because it could lead to that thing you are avoiding and may be in a dilemma.
Exactly have always been very careful though but even if it does happen it just one choice only if she choice to abort before telling me, I know what it take to be a father and ready, so help me God
Hehe. If one is ready, then go ahead and chew the chunk but choose a worthy partner.
Yeah that's just it, I pray God help me chose the best
All the best, man.
Wahala be like probability math problem. If their chance was 99% nko? 🌚 You come dey minus am.
I wonder if it is that you consider the woman to be dispensable, looking from the perspective that you can only save one person; the child or the mother. Comrade, I fear you.
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No sir, their chance can't even be up to that 60%, why said that was, what if she is not ready ?
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I couldn't help but laugh at the final statement. You'd vanish after askinh her to keep it? 😂
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Because she might not be ready for the challenges to come so instead of her staying and making me feel worst.... Thanks for coming around
The fact that you don't go into a relationship with someone you can't marry if the unexpected happens is something I find okay because truly, life is unpredictable.
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You are right sir about life not be unpredictable but at the same time we have caution ourselves
In my opinion, it's easy to say what you will do when you aren't in that position.
But it's all good, I pray you never get to face such.