People Don't Care, They Don't Give A Damn - Indiaunited New Contest
If you want to ask me if people really care about you and what you do for them, the simple answer is this: people don't really care, but they care about what you can do for them, because that's where things start to benefit them the most . If, because of finding this out, we decide not to talk to one or two people, even close family friends.
You might be in for a shock that they don't even care in the first place.e If you are the person who is always answering all calls, helping everybody out in every situation and at every time, you are the one lending a hand, giving money out, connecting people, being the bridge that connects opportunity to people everywhere.
Then one day you are not even available anymore, and the call starts to drop. People have moved on to the next Opportunist, next helper, next angelic investor, and many more.
You will now sit down in one corner and start to think: Do people actually care about me?
Do they even care about what I do for them? The truth is people don't even care They don't give a damn When you are useful, it makes you feel good and that's interesting in itself And when you are solving people's problem people will hail you they will be at your beck and call They will praise you, sing your name, give you a chieftaincy title and many more Perhaps you are even good with technology And someone needs a laptop and you give it out People know that they can come to you whenever they are stuck and that's a very good thing It's a very good feeling But there is a difference between this and when you are valued and being useful Someone can value what you do without even necessarily valuing you as a person.
Though we don't notice the difference easily But it goes on and on I've been in a situation where conversations became very tense And questions were asked and I found out that People don't even care They don't give a damn who you are But they care about what you can do for them When you have genuine relationship those are the type of people that care about you And they don't even care if you can do something for them or not That is the price of having a very good relationship Though not every relationship is perfect or balanced.
Sometimes one needs more helper than the other Sometimes you might be the strong one Sometimes you might be the weak one Sometimes you might just be the person who is listening at all time And that's normal The real difference here is that Whereas you have people who are ready to suck you dry there are people who are Caring enough to know that when you have helped them when the opportunity comes to they should be the one to help you People who genuinely care about you They don't only show up when you have something to offer During the time that you are down they will check on you and they will remember you at all time They will celebrate you and make sure that You don't miss out of any good thing or opportunity in life Because that's very very important They will decide to sit with you Even when you don't have anything to give them And when there is nothing to look up to in you they are much more interested Even we ourselves to sit down to reassess what am I doing? How many people am I helping? And who are the people that can actually bail me out if anything happens? And are my friends genuine people who can help me up if things turn out?
Then you have to ask yourself: What do I even care about in the first place? When you start to ask this kind of question, you'll be suspicious of almost everyone if they truly love you back or not. And you won't even know the kind of friend that you should keep and the one that you should not be helping. People make our life easier, so by doing that we can invest in other people's lives.
But it's also very good when the people that you have invested in can also help you out when You are dry. And a relationship that is not worthy to be taken should be let go. When there is a bad month you should be able to have people around you, When there are good months, healthy relationships should surround you at every time. Genuine relationship is the most paramount. When you have genuine relationships with people, you won't even know the difference if people care about you or people did not care or They want something from you or what you can do for them.
Genuine relationships supersede all, it keeps everything balanced and checked.
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