Things To Improve On As A Single!

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Please master the fundamentals of life's etiquette and necessities before giving yourself over to someone else to be loved, singles. It is already a huge effort for us to navigate the process of selecting a spouse to wed, let alone worry about whether you can correctly flush a toilet.

It's too much, so before you decide to get married, give yourself the tools you'll need to live honorably and peacefully with someone else in the same home.

Many of you continue to use the restroom like a shark while getting clean, spraying soapy water and bath foam everywhere before leaving it that way for someone else to use. Who exactly are you looking for? Someone who enjoys watching trash?

A rudimentary education on flushing the toilet after you is required for some of you. Marriages are frequently destroyed by accumulated grievances brought on by our laziness and a protracted lack of preparation before to marriage, not by the opponent. Our unwillingness to put in the effort necessary to improve our current selves.

Uncle doesn't feel safe hanging around with you because you eat haphazardly and like a bat. You are unsure of which hand to use to grasp a fork and how to handle a knife. It sounds like an old transformer when you belge. These tiny but crucial details can affect how you and your spouse will interact in your marriage.

Improve yourself. Stop dressing like a rainbow ambassador; check your fashion sense and update.

Use good deodorant and perfume; these are fundamental abilities. Make sure your spouse is not fighting beside you when the two of you are combating the enemy.

When you get out of bed, learn how to make your own bed. This one applies to all sexes; even men should learn how to properly dress a bed. These factors significantly ease interpersonal relationships.

Also, develop good sleeping habits. Some of you will fall asleep on the bed and wake up beside the door; in your dreams, you might be competing in swimming with someone else, as you roll around the bed as you sleep. Please learn proper sleeping techniques, and while you're at it, stop snoring. I'm a marriage counselor, so I can tell you for free how many irreconcilable disputes this has sparked in marriages. Work on your sleeping positions now; otherwise, when you are married, the sound of your snore will compete with the sound of your neighbor's generator.

Early on, work on your stinginess. People who are not selfless givers should not get married. Stingy individuals cannot withstand the trials of marriage; this will be the root of all your marital problems.

See, guys, if you are sincere with yourself and take a good, hard look within, you will discover that some of the traits you currently display are essentially marriage killers ready to sink your home. Even if you are aware of these things, you refuse to make the time to improve yourself. It is only afterwards that you will begin switching from one Apostle to another in search of a solution to a marital conflict that regular tooth brushing could have more easily prevented.

Please start working right away.

And once you get married, the job never ends. When you stop improving yourself while you're married, you give the opponent a foothold from which to attack you.

I remain your favourite writer, Blackdovy.



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Nice write up dear ✍️ Tolerance in Marriage is really good but still living in a character and expecting things to be ok is not good, Both parties needs to level up.

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