Ladies of Hive Community Contest # 84 / The middle sister
Hola damas, esta semana ha sido muy familiar para mí, ya que mis publicaciones fueron enfocadas hacia ese tema y por casualidad el concurso # 84 de esta hermosa comunidad que ha sacado tanto de mí, también nos invita a compartir un contenido referente a la familia, contando nuestra posición de nacimiento con respecto a los hermanos. Invito a mi amiga @lina1976 para que prepare su entrada al concurso.
Hello ladies, this week has been very family friendly for me, as my posts were focused towards that topic and by chance contest # 84 of this beautiful community that has brought out so much from me, also invites us to share a content regarding family, telling our birth position regarding siblings. I invite my friend @lina1976 to prepare her entry to the contest.
What is your position (in terms of birth) in the family? How did that experience help you to become a successful adult or hinder you from becoming a successful adult?
Bueno, mis padres tienen tres hijos dentro del matrimonio. Mi hermana mayor que solo me lleva 11 meses y mi hermano menor a quien le llevó 10 años, entonces yo soy la hija del medio y durante 10 años solo fuimos dos hermanas.
Mis padres siempre nos trataron como iguales a las dos, es que en todos lados nos decían morochas, porque la diferencia de edad no se notaba. Nunca se me dijo: tienes que hacerle caso a tu hermana mayor. Entonces literalmente hicimos todo juntas, la escuela, el bachillerato y nos fuimos juntas a estudiar en la universidad. Y si, somos colegas de nuestra primera carrera universitaria.
Con mi hermano, pues todo fue diferente, porque el nació cuando yo tenia 10 y mi hermana 11 años, así que fue el consentido por todos en la casa, al que le hacíamos todo y mi hermana y yo peleábamos para que el durmiera con nosotras, por lo que un día lo hacía con ella y al siguiente conmigo, era fácil resolver los conflictos de esta manera 😁.
Well, my parents have three children within the marriage. My older sister who is only 11 months older and my younger brother who is 10 years older, so I am the middle child and for 10 years we were only two sisters.
My parents always treated both of us as equals, they called us brunettes everywhere, because the age difference was not noticeable. I was never told: you have to listen to your older sister. So we literally did everything together, school, high school and we went to college together. And yes, we are colleagues from our first university career.
With my brother, well everything was different, because he was born when I was 10 and my sister was 11 years old, so he was the spoiled by everyone in the house, we did everything to him and my sister and I fought for him to sleep with us, so one day he would sleep with her and the next with me, it was easy to resolve conflicts this way 😁.
How did being the middle child influence me to become a successful person?
La respuesta a esta pregunta sería, la crianza de mis padres. Con respecto a mi hermana siempre tuvimos las mismas obligaciones y responsabilidades. Eso me ayudó a entender que no porque ella era mayor tenía privilegios o viceversa y de esta manera comprendí que todos somos diferentes pero cabemos en el mismo mundo.
Siendo la hermana del medio he tenido la oportunidad de proteger y ser protegida. Pero también me ha ayudado a convertirme en una persona mas independiente. Es más, me gradué primero que mi hermana e inmediatamente dejé mi casa para vivir sola y he podido lograr las metas que me he propuesto.
Creo que los hijos del medio, tenemos la necesidad de ser autosuficientes y es que en muchos casos sentimos que nuestros padres prestan más atención a los mayores y a los menores, aunque no necesariamente tiene porque ser cierto, pero eso nos impulsa a trabajar duro cada día para no quedarnos atrás del mayor y dar el ejemplo a los menores. Es un compromiso muy grande.
The answer to this question would be, my parents’ upbringing. With respect to my sister we always had the same obligations and responsibilities. That helped me to understand that not because she was older she had privileges or viceversa and in this way I understood that we are all different but we fit in the same world.
Being the middle sister has given me the opportunity to protect and be protected. But it has also helped me become a more independent person. In fact, I graduated before my sister and immediately left home to live on my own and have been able to achieve the goals I have set for myself.
I think that the children in the middle, we have the need to be self-sufficient and in many cases we feel that our parents pay more attention to the older and younger, although it does not necessarily have to be true, but that drives us to work hard every day to not fall behind the eldest and set an example to the younger ones. It is a very big commitment.
Hasta mi participación de esta semana. Puedes dejarme un comentarios si te sientes identificada con mi historia.
Until my participation this week. You can leave me a comment if you feel identified with my story.
Thanks for reading and commenting
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Hello @beysyd. I loved your story. Being viewed and treated as equals by your parents even though you were the second child is a wonderful feeling. Your parents handled it perfectly. I could feel the love, respect, and camaraderie between you and your older sister.
I smiled while reading your story, especially when you say this about your younger brother, ten years your junior:
That was lovely. I enjoyed reading. Take care and have a good weekend.
🤣 Yes, it's that he was the spoiled one, when that was between 4 and 6 years old, all we wanted was to spoil him.
My sister and I are still very close, only now I live 12 hours away from my family, but we talk almost every day on WhatsApp.
I'm glad you liked my story, I'm also glad that my parents treated us both equally.
Thank you 🙂
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