Overcoming Been Shy

Once in a life time as a lady, you have in one way or the other exhibited been shy probably when called upon to speak in public or approaching someone you love. I want to tell you that you should take a look at yourself like right now.

Have you done that? Then that’s how other people also look like. In this post I will be listing out ways to overcome been shy.

My Story
I was so shy especially when I never had friends this happened during my days in school. Speaking to people was a very big problem to me in short I knew it wasn’t taking me anywhere.

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The only people I related well and wasn’t shy to talk to them were my close family and relatives because I do see them on a daily and we share some traits. A lot of people take drugs just to overcome the shy spirit and get active but how long will you continue to take drugs and in turn this may be harmful to your body system as a whole.

How I overcame been shy
I began to realize that it doesn’t pay to be shy type, it only makes you different from others. How I began to clear off the spirit of shyness in me especially when I was in college, I began to have friends, firstly I had friends who were of same sex like me. I changed my habits of doing things alone and I engaged with people whom were share same sociality.

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I had friends and good ones for that matter, that was when I realized I had a leadership skill in me. Those friends would invite me on occasions where I had to speak because everyone knew me then in school that I was the shy type.

After classes, I went straight home, don’t talk to people and this really affected me because when they were to share an information with me they just believe me to be an alien from another planet.

But I began to engage with friends and I wouldn’t forget one of my friend by name Justina, she had this public speaking gift in her, she would want me to speak in occasion she invited me.

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That was when I realized I had a leadership skill with time I began to interact with people I became a class representative and also forwarded my interest in involving in school politics which got me to where I am today. Acting and also partnering with people.

Conclusion
In summary, I realized that every humans are been made of same flesh and same bone and each one had a particular gift deposited in him or her. Believe me that you wouldn’t have existed if you are not to fulfill a purpose on earth.

You helping or speaking to someone could help change the person for good. The question I want to pose to you is what is your purpose? How have you been able to overcome been shy by achieving your purpose in life?

Thanks for reading, I appreciate the time spent.



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