How To Know Your Right Partner
In this piece, I will be sharing out tips to know who should be your right partner for you. I have tested things in life and found out that money can’t buy love, sex can’t buy love, been smart and nice cannot buy love, wearing expensive clothes and jewelries also can’t buy love and you know love engineers the relationship at first but don’t mistake it for lust.
I decided to put things that can grease the mechanics of been in a relationship with your partner.
Here are the things I noticed which I will use as a story
I grew up into a family of five. Like I got four siblings and I, it’s been fun staying with them also but currently I live alone but still unite with them. I discovered something I want to share about my both parents.
My dad can pray and things work out good, he just got that talent and also about my mum, whenever there is an impending danger coming up, my mum will see it. They have been living together and I also with them when I was a kid till when I got grown up.
What is the point am trying to bring out here?
There should be mutual benefits from each other to ensure a good relationship.
Now The Problem Lies here
Not everyone may have that benefit you wish to partake in obviously, some people got it hidden in them, you just need to build them up through your experience and when building them up you just have to be respectful to them too.
Imagine been loved because of what you benefit from me, am not literally referring to money or gift or sexual pleasure though they are essential but not of utmost priority but if I have something to benefit from you and so likewise me that could help both of us explore our world, Just approve the relationship and keep on till you get to your apex.
I wasn’t happy at first when I discovered man can be limited to knowing what will happen tomorrow if it’s a bad one or a good one. Either of both may happen but do you know when you are with the right partner, she drives you to where there is good and bad never occurs to you and also you drive her to where is good. We were created to solve each other’s problems. There is nothing you are doing that others haven’t done before.
Achieving this alone may not be all that easy, reasons been that one has to, at beginning stage tolerate some flaws, some errors and make some corrections as well. To my understanding anyone willing to take correction and also undergo the stressfull beginning stage of finding a partner.
I am not criticizing you who has fallen into several relationship, myself am not perfect too. I once had a partner whom we both love each other in college but what separated us was cheating and no ideas and I concluded there is nothing to benefit from both parties but had to call it off because I knew I have a bright future and would want to align with someone that can make me explore my world.
Conclusion
In this post, I have been able to point out how the concept of mutual benefit is essential in relationship. You know a relationship can lead to marriage but not all. How you plan your self today will determine how you will appear tomorow. The earlier the plan is made the better for the plan to be established.
Thanks for reading though.
Thanks @ladiesofhive