How I Control Anger #95

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I want to appreciate the efforts of the team of ladies of hive community in setting up contest where everyone gets to learn from each other. As if I knew this will come up as a contest, I wrote an article about controlling your temper with the link below.

It's titled "self control"
"Relationship Jist : Self Control — Hive" https://hive.blog/hive-124452/@beatrice3em/relationship-jist-self-control

When I came to realize that anger destroys, it can kill, hurt emotions and so on and everyone has in one way or the other encountered it. I do not continue with things that will get me angry to the last point of involving actions or even exchanging words since I came to understand life better.

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What makes me angry

I get angry at cheating a lot

Whether its my friend, or someone I know who cheats, the person might not be cheating on me but I pains me deep in my heart. And I had such relationship I shared on my blog how my first partner cheated on me. It wasn’t funny but it resulted into exchange of words I never wish I could say.

I had to note that not everyone who comes into your life will be amazing. Some will come to make you angry and bring tears to your eyes.

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Others will come to motivate you but I avoid getting myself angry by cutting off relationship that will lead me to anger. That’s why I study people at first.

Lies
Lies also gets me annoyed especially when I know the truth and someone else is trying to polish it into a lie with grammar and the likes. My relationship I first had was filled with lies and I had to cut it up in order not to get hurt or the person.

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Conclusion
Anger hurts, it destabilizes emotion, you should get to been happy more than been angry, I suggest to everyone in this community, anything that often gets you annoyed easily please do cut away from such. You will end up saving yourself from issues that may arise.

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Photo By Me

In a bid to invite another woman to also share her views I seek the permission. I call on @ifarmgirl and @monica-ene

Thanks for reading



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Cheating always damages the relationship
Thanks dear for visiting

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Cheating and lies are things that often destroy one's cool and equilibrium. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and for the invite :)

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Total cut off..I agree with this. Anything that threatens my peace is a cut off.thank you so much for sharing.
It's a nice read!!

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Cheating can really make someone to boil.
It is really bad when people do it continuously, I mean what is wrong with you? Can't you just stop?
Is really annoying.

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It is unpleasant to live those experiences of being cheated by your partner, I lived it when I was a girlfriend in my youth...of course that relationship did not continue...I cried a lot...but thank God I got out of that pain wrapped with frustration and anger.

Thank you for sharing your experience

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Anger also silences and suffocates our voice. The betrayal of a loved one is always the most painful.

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I can reflect myself completely here. Cheating and Lies is something I have zero tolerance for and my way of dealing is the same, it is to just cut off with such people

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