How I Control Anger #95
I want to appreciate the efforts of the team of ladies of hive community in setting up contest where everyone gets to learn from each other. As if I knew this will come up as a contest, I wrote an article about controlling your temper with the link below.
It's titled "self control"
"Relationship Jist : Self Control — Hive" https://hive.blog/hive-124452/@beatrice3em/relationship-jist-self-control
When I came to realize that anger destroys, it can kill, hurt emotions and so on and everyone has in one way or the other encountered it. I do not continue with things that will get me angry to the last point of involving actions or even exchanging words since I came to understand life better.
What makes me angry
I get angry at cheating a lot
Whether its my friend, or someone I know who cheats, the person might not be cheating on me but I pains me deep in my heart. And I had such relationship I shared on my blog how my first partner cheated on me. It wasn’t funny but it resulted into exchange of words I never wish I could say.
I had to note that not everyone who comes into your life will be amazing. Some will come to make you angry and bring tears to your eyes.
Others will come to motivate you but I avoid getting myself angry by cutting off relationship that will lead me to anger. That’s why I study people at first.
Lies
Lies also gets me annoyed especially when I know the truth and someone else is trying to polish it into a lie with grammar and the likes. My relationship I first had was filled with lies and I had to cut it up in order not to get hurt or the person.
Conclusion
Anger hurts, it destabilizes emotion, you should get to been happy more than been angry, I suggest to everyone in this community, anything that often gets you annoyed easily please do cut away from such. You will end up saving yourself from issues that may arise.
In a bid to invite another woman to also share her views I seek the permission. I call on @ifarmgirl and @monica-ene
Thanks for reading
Cheating always damages the relationship
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Thanks for the precious time spent reading
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Cheating and lies are things that often destroy one's cool and equilibrium. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and for the invite :)
You are welcome, thanks for reading
lies are the worst that exists, I don't know how there are people who can lie like nothing. Thanks for sharing
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Total cut off..I agree with this. Anything that threatens my peace is a cut off.thank you so much for sharing.
It's a nice read!!
Thanks for reading friend as simple as that dear.
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Cheating can really make someone to boil.
It is really bad when people do it continuously, I mean what is wrong with you? Can't you just stop?
Is really annoying.
It is unpleasant to live those experiences of being cheated by your partner, I lived it when I was a girlfriend in my youth...of course that relationship did not continue...I cried a lot...but thank God I got out of that pain wrapped with frustration and anger.
Thank you for sharing your experience
Anger also silences and suffocates our voice. The betrayal of a loved one is always the most painful.
I can reflect myself completely here. Cheating and Lies is something I have zero tolerance for and my way of dealing is the same, it is to just cut off with such people