Trust carefully ~ Choose wisely

In my entire life I have experienced many difficulties by trust the wrong people. I have never thought of any bad thing of happening and I end up sharing my secrets whoever I am free with. But that has become an issue for me because of trusting randomly without any validities I have suffered a lot. I have met many people everyone at first seems to be very sweet but in the end they turn up like a vamp.

Even if I have got betrayed soo many times I still have the intention to trust again because I believe that if our fingers are not the same then there are multiple different persons.

I always end up trusting people until they have prove me wrong. Maybe I am too naive. Like sharing personal information quickly and open up myself to people very easily, but it’s not a bad thing.

Always kept these following things in my mind:
1 - Not everyone owns the same heart or has same intentions like me.
2 - it’s not weird but whenever I meet them in person then I would ask that if I can trust him/her and then I try to pay my attention to their eyes and also focus on the answer they gave me.
3 - If someone can back bitch about someone else then they can do the same to myself.
4 - I have always tried to make an eye contact. If they kept avoiding to make an eye contact this could mean that they are not yet preferred to be trusted.
5 - If I ever feel safe with him/her but then I start trusting them with minor personal things. Which if they share then I will get to know about it.
6 - I also make sure that the people I share with the information is not highly personal and let them know the reason why am I sharing it’s because I trust them.
7 - One thing I have figured out is that there is no need to share everything with anyone find few specific people to share it with.
8 - I also make sure that I don’t share other people’s information that they trusted me with. Even if people shares my secrets I won’t do the same against them. I will try to refrain from gossiping.
9 - Lastly, if someone is showing me their true colours then I would just believe them.

So, you all should stay careful in making friends and be aware of your enemies they can attack you at any time. When there is an enemy you know about them and can collect every single details but when there is a person with fake personality can who is your friend he would be hard to guess and find out.

I would say think before trusting don’t think after trusting. Because that would be a loss project. I just want to be successful. I have trusted people before and have felt heart broken so I have stopped letting anyone control my feelings. It’s not a bad thing to trust someone the only bad thing about this matter is that not letting them go out of our memories. Moreover, a relationship can’t work out without trust because trust issues can cause big issues that is the reason trusting wisely is very important for us.

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About the Author

My name is Haya, I am from Bangladesh, currently I am a student and I started my journey as a content creator in 2019 , Mainly I am interested in gaming, I am a professional Esports player of PUBG MOBILE. I am known as the most famous female player from PUBG MOBILE Bangladesh gaming community. Mask is my identity I do not intend to reveal my face in future that’s why you will see me in mask in every pictures. I have taken interested in HIVE because it’s the best platform for a content creator like me. I also like travelling, photography, drawing, gardening, blogging and many more things I intend to attempt in my free times.

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