Jealousy is Unhealthy
Is hating someone worths my time at all? I don’t think so, because I think it is just a waste of time. Also, everyone’s time is valuable and if we don’t utilise our time then who will? If we don’t prepare for the future then there would be no good outcomes. I think most of the times we waste our time for unnecessary things such as gossiping about others. Well, it’s okay to discuss for a while but it’s not okay to talk bad things about someone when they are not present at the time to defend themselves. I am sure those kind of people can’t even talk like this in front of the one they are gossiping about.
For example look at social media platforms, people are online and they think they can say whatever they won’t because no one can trace them and confront them in real life so, they are not afraid to write anything bad even they never bothers if they are cursing someone or being rude or bullying someone really bad. But if it’s someone they know in real life then they would fear to say something wrong because they know if something happens the victims won’t stay quite and later on they will face them in real life. These people are only keyboard warriors. I think if they had cared for their future life then they would not waste their time in those useless things.
If you are jealous of someone it is okay to feel jealous at some point because someone might be more beautiful or intelligent. But for example in a group if someone is getting praised for her work and talent but then you try to point out that her height is very short then everyone will notice that you are being jealous and trying to pull her down which will make others also think that you are very cheap person who would do anything to hear the defamation of someone. What did you gain by mentioning about her height ? Just because she is short does not mean is not able to pursue her dreams and those words of your won’t hamper her success.
By insulting someone publicly you might gain satisfaction but that’s it. You will not gain anything else out of that. I have seen many trying to point out my mistakes and also make up things which I have never done. I do feel bad at some times but then I remember that I am strong and it doesn’t matter whoever is bad mouthing they have nothing to do in life but I am smart and I have plans to accomplish so I should not get bothered by someone’s words. I think no one should lower their standard to bring someone else down. Like yeah, there are some nuisance content creators on the internet you can share your opinions but don’t be so harsh be careful of your mouth and be aware of what you say. There are some cases that few people would not get afraid to take their own life because of the bully.
There are many things going on in everyone’s life and so for that let’s not make life hard for others because you never know what someone else is going through and what is their mental health. Something bad can happen so to avoid that let’s not hate someone to the worst level. If I use my time to improve myself like someone else who is successful then I can do it too. But if I am busy on gossiping about someone’s success then I will never be successful. Let’s create a world full of positivity and not let someone be upset for our words. To be honest even if someone is wrong I feel bad to say something to them like I don’t know why it happens.
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I guess someone said something to you about your height. Right?
In case of height short or long doesn't matter. People see the quality and behaviour of person not the height.
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No, don’t guess lol I am talking about someone else, my height is perfect and everyone says so. But I had a short friend I am talking about her. She was under 5 feet.
Say her not to think too much about it. It's a Thing she can't control. It's genetical issue. I don't understand why female are too much serious about height.
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Hello @ayamihaya I agree with you, no one knows the sorrows of the other person to fill it with bad comments, unfortunately there are beings who are dedicated to that.
Hello, I wish they were dedicated with their goals more than those things.
I agree, insulting someone doesn't leave us with anything good.
Hatred and jealousy are unhealthy and fill the heart with negative feelings.
Great reflection.
Yep, it will only show the true Color's of that person.
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Thanks for your insightful view. I concur that hate and negativity are counterproductive, wasting energy better used on self-improvement. It's regrettable that some engage in harmful behaviors like online bullying due to jealousy or insecurity. Your focus on self-improvement over negativity is inspiring, reminding us of our power to choose positivity and shape a kinder world. Your empathy and regard for mental health are exemplary. Thanks for your thoughts, continue promoting positivity and kindness.
I actually know how it feels that's why I want to help others to overcome this situation.
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