A Friend in need is a Friend indeed - Importance of Friendship

Personal Experience in Friendship

I have always been alone without any friends. Playing by my self on PC which did make me feel better. Later on after few years when I was 17, after being alone for all these year I found some friends from online gaming. They are from “Pubg Mobile” game and till 2023 I never did met with them in real life so they have been with me for a long time.

We didn’t realise how time has passed, we met in 2023 for a serious matter. Not like normal hangout they came to help me out in a critical situation. That day I have realised how much friends are important in life. I found myself in tears after realising how foolish I was, to think that friends will never be something important to me in life, because I used to think everyone is selfish they will always think of their own benefits. But it’s truly nothing like that it’s totally different.

A tragic event happened in 2023 February and my relatives didn’t bother to help. I was hope-less my father was almost dying. I was in pain thinking that I am useless because I can’t help my father. Seeing my father in pain brought lot’s of guilt thinking that how can I forgive myself if something happens to him. Then I reached out to my friends for help they came without any hesitance and got my father hospitalised. I was crying soo badly praying that he must get well also feeling devastated and exhausted. My friend told me not to worry they will take care of it and they really did struggle with me for months without anything in return. They didn’t ask for anything they just wanted to help me out without any benefits. I was thanking to God for blessing me with such good friends.

My father’s siblings later on came to the hospital pretending to be nice saying that they had no choices. They are blood related to my father yet they didn’t find any solution to help my father to keep him alive. But those friends of mine from social media or game whatever you can name it they didn’t have any blood connection with me they just came to help without thinking of anything. I will be forever grateful to them for saving my father.

I don’t know how to explain, how helpless I felt when I had no ways to save my father. But my friends gave my father another life which is totally unexpected. I never had those kind of expectations from friends because all over the years since my childhood I never made good friends. So, I am blessed with such friends with good human beings. Their kindness towards me has amazed me the most also after recovering my father did cry for the very first time he does that very rare. He was happy that I have made such great friends and wants me to stick with them forever. I will try to help them as much as possible as per my ability. I will never let anyone loss hope when they are hopeless.

I would say that I have learnt a great lesson that no matter what even if someone is blood related to you if you don’t have a bond with them then they won’t get bothered to see you dying. but if a bond is created strongly with friendship then you can be assured that they always have your back. It doesn’t matter if they are not blood related to you. My friends are like my another family where I can share my feelings without any hesitation. So, yeah friends are really important in life. If you ever find a good friend do not ever let them go.

I hope that also from Hive I can find some friends. Already have connections with some and they are always helping me out I am very much grateful to them.

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About the Author

My name is Haya, I am from Bangladesh, currently I am a student and I started my journey as a content creator in 2019 , Mainly I am interested in gaming, I am a professional Esports player of PUBG MOBILE. I am known as the most famous female player from PUBG MOBILE Bangladesh gaming community. Mask is my identity I do not intend to reveal my face in future that’s why you will see me in mask in every pictures. I have taken interested in HIVE because it’s the best platform for a content creator like me. I also like travelling, photography, drawing, gardening, blogging and many more things I intend to attempt in my free times.

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