[ESP-ENG] ¿ Because we talk about sex ? // ¿ Porque hablamos de sexo ?

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Pues una pregunta que muchos en ciertos puntos de nuestra vida , nos hemos dado cuenta la frecuencia con la que hablamos de sexo y o estas en situaciones donde la presencia de este tema es mucha . Ya saben no soy profesional , ese post es basado en mis experiencias y conocimiento.

Pero , si hablas de sexo , es lo mas natural del mundo , no debemos pensar que es excesivo , mas bien , es una expresión del nuestra mente / cuerpo . Yo lo hablo demasiado , por eso me gusta hacer post sobre tantos temas y que me han interesado y a la vez enseñado , compartir ese conocimiento de otra manera , hay tantas practicas , teorías y curiosidad , que decirlo no debería ser un tabú en esta era . Hay una diferencia en ser expresivo y ser obsesivo , de igual forma pasa con el sexo , pero debemos saber diferenciar y que esto no se nos haga incomodo . Desde adolescente , me parece que lo poco que nos explicaban sobre el sexo , no era adecuado , siento que era una duda tras otra , entiendo que era una medida de control y que no todos toman de manera simple , hay quizás una reacción de miedo y desconocimiento , todo paree complicado y es donde creo que deben enfocarse mas , porque lo es! , y bastante complejo . Tuve muchos años pensando ser sexóloga , por el hecho de ser muy practica y menos teórica en cosas que muchos temen decir , como es el sexo por primera vez , el cuidado de la mujer realmente en su salud e higiene , y como hacer con las relaciones sexuales , luego de la primera vez , temas y detalles que no sabemos solo , cuando vamos creciendo y que podemos evitar muchos accidentes , que si repasamos , nos daremos cuenta que fueron algo que mama nos pudo evitar con una conversación mas precisa . Yo por curiosidad , he descubierto muchas cosas y esas me han ayudado a lo largo de mi sexualidad .

Hay que entender que hablamos para comunicarnos , para dejar claro que nos gusta , y que no , para empatizar , ligar , seducir , todo esos instintos normales que tiene el ser humano , por eso expresar los deseo o lo que nos gusta , es cuestión de preferencia , no esta mal hablarlo . La expresión debe ser tanto como del cuerpo , como de nuestros sentimientos , así que debemos expresarnos .

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Well a question that many at certain points in our lives , we have noticed how often we talk about sex and or these in situations where the presence of this topic is a lot . You know I am not a professional , that post is based on my experiences and knowledge .

But , if you talk about sex , it is the most natural thing in the world , we should not think that it is excessive , rather , it is an expression of our mind / body . I talk about it too much , that's why I like to post about so many topics and that have interested me and at the same time taught me , to share that knowledge in another way , there are so many practices , theories and curiosity , that saying it should not be a taboo in this age . There is a difference between being expressive and being obsessive , in the same way it happens with sex , but we must know how to differentiate and that this does not make us uncomfortable . Since I was a teenager , it seems to me that the little that was explained to us about sex , was not adequate , I feel that it was one doubt after another , I understand that it was a measure of control and that not everyone takes in a simple way , there is perhaps a reaction of fear and ignorance , everything seems complicated and that is where I think they should focus more , because it is ! and quite complex. I had many years thinking about being a sexologist , because of the fact of being very practical and less theoretical in things that many are afraid to say , as is sex for the first time , the care of women really in their health and hygiene , and how to do with sex , after the first time , issues and details that we do not know alone , when we grow up and that we can avoid many accidents , which if we review , we will realize that they were something that mom could avoid us with a more precise conversation . Out of curiosity, I have discovered many things that have helped me throughout my sexuality.

We have to understand that we talk to communicate , to make clear what we like , and what we don't like , to empathize , to flirt , to seduce , all those normal instincts that human beings have , so expressing our desires or what we like is a matter of preference , it is not wrong to talk about it . The expression should be as much as the body , as our feelings , so we must express ourselves .

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The problem with society is that they don't allow such things to he talked about openly, sex is often treated like a taboo topic. Allowing us understand certain things while we were growing would have been better. Unfortunately, parents think the best way is ti avoid the topic altogether since they do not want to unintentionally push their children into performing sexual acts put of curiosity. While forgetting that thr manner of approach is what would make a difference.

Sex is a normal part of us and is another way of expressing ourselves. Such topics shouldn't be excised but be allowed to be discussed openly.

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