Is Your Definition of Success Exhausting You?

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If someone asked you to define success right now, what would you say? That's precisely one of the questions I asked one of my latest guests on my podcast. For many, the answer defaults to classic things like money, properties, titles, being popular, etc.

Arjan admitted that he hasn't found the one definition, but he knows what he wants it to include. In his case, success is "that I live from rest in a playful state, aligned with who I'm created to be." Now, that's a powerful definition, don't you think?

It's powerful because it is a radical shift from the culture of constant hustle, and at the core of it is the idea of alignment. When your values and your actions are aligned, then your purpose is unlocked, and everyone around you profits from that. Arjan argues that this authenticity is actually your specific "added value" to the world. As he beautifully puts it, "Success means, in a way, that I'm a big blessing for someone else."

Whether we define success as having enough to eat and a roof over our heads, a certain amount of money or properties, or achieving X and Y, Arjan's perspective reminds us that the version of success that brings lasting joy is the one where we are most authentically ourselves.

So, let us ask ourselves: are we just busy, or are we living with integrity?

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@acgalarza tag me whenever you are posting

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Of course, I'll do that. Thank you, @caleblord!

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If you didn't know I've been getting downvoted for a long time on Hive

They have been trying to bully me with downvotes and words but it doesn't affect me I've been online for over 25 years

So I've dealt with people like this before it's nothing new

But what they are doing is bad Very badi joined steemit like everyone else thinking it offers freedom but I must say steemit offered much more freedom than Hive does

Everyone already knows I only post my own original content I have no need to steal anything from anyone

I've been labelled a lot of things on Hive 😂 by the biggest farmers scammers and downvoters

Actions speak louder than any words do especially when them words are coming from a compolsive liars

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You are a scammer a thief a criminal who is working for other criminals

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Hello everyone I hope you are all good and well today in this post is some of the evidence to prove my case

If you didn't know I've been getting downvoted for a long time on Hive

They have been trying to bully me with downvotes and words but it doesn't affect me I've been online for over 25 years

So I've dealt with people like this before it's nothing new

But what they are doing is bad Very badi joined steemit like everyone else thinking it offers freedom but I must say steemit offered much more freedom than Hive does

Everyone already knows I only post my own original content I have no need to steal anything from anyone

I've been labelled a lot of things on Hive 😂 by the biggest farmers scammers and downvoters

Actions speak louder than any words do especially when them words are coming from a compolsive liars

I will keep updating this post when I get time

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You are a scammer a thief a criminal who is working for other criminals

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Hello everyone I hope you are all good and well today in this post is some of the evidence to prove my case

If you didn't know I've been getting downvoted for a long time on Hive

They have been trying to bully me with downvotes and words but it doesn't affect me I've been online for over 25 years

So I've dealt with people like this before it's nothing new

But what they are doing is bad Very badi joined steemit like everyone else thinking it offers freedom but I must say steemit offered much more freedom than Hive does

Everyone already knows I only post my own original content I have no need to steal anything from anyone

I've been labelled a lot of things on Hive 😂 by the biggest farmers scammers and downvoters

Actions speak louder than any words do especially when them words are coming from a compolsive liars

I will keep updating this post when I get time

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You are a scammer a thief a criminal who is working for other criminals

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Hello everyone I hope you are all good and well today in this post is some of the evidence to prove my case

If you didn't know I've been getting downvoted for a long time on Hive

They have been trying to bully me with downvotes and words but it doesn't affect me I've been online for over 25 years

So I've dealt with people like this before it's nothing new

But what they are doing is bad Very badi joined steemit like everyone else thinking it offers freedom but I must say steemit offered much more freedom than Hive does

Everyone already knows I only post my own original content I have no need to steal anything from anyone

I've been labelled a lot of things on Hive 😂 by the biggest farmers scammers and downvoters

Actions speak louder than any words do especially when them words are coming from a compolsive liars

I will keep updating this post when I get time

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Excellent contribution, always with interesting topics; they're life lessons. I see you've learned to hide the labels; someone told you, I read it—I imagine they're the norm, and it's great that we learn. I enjoy following you and supporting you. You interview a variety of interesting people. They're good messages that sometimes coincide with shared interests. I like that you leave a written summary so I can translate it; I don't understand all the English words, sorry.

I always tell newcomers to Hive that the most important thing is to have fun in the process.

...In your case, success is "living from tranquility, in a playful state, aligned with who I was created to be."

Hugs.

Excelente aporte siempre con temas que son interesantes, son aprendizajes de la vida misma. Ya veo que aprendiste a ocultar las etiquetas, te lo dijeron, lo leí, son normas me imagino, es excelente que aprendemos. Me gusta acompañarte y darte apoyo, entrevistas personas variadas e interesantes. Son buenos mensajes que a veces coincidimos en intereses. Me gusta que dejas un resumen escrito así lo puedo traducir, no entiendo todas las palabras en ingles, lo siento.

Yo siempre comento a los que llegan nuevos a Hive que los más importante es que se diviertan en el proceso.

... En su caso, el éxito es "vivir desde la tranquilidad, en un estado lúdico, alineado con quien fui creado para ser".
Un abrazo.

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¡Muchas gracias, @sacra97! Tu apoyo y comentarios siempre me dan ánimo para crear contenido en HIVE. Últimamente no he traducido el resumen al español, pero quizá deba hacerlo de nuevo para facilitarles el trabajo a los lectores. ¿Qué opinás?

En relación a las etiquetas, no estoy muy seguro, yo todavía las veo cuando abro el Post. ¿Tú nos las ves?

Un abrazo de regreso

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Si colocas ese resumen que aportas abajo yo lo traduzco, no tengo problemas allí, puedo entenderlo. Veamos si alguien más te lo indica. Si ya vi las etiquetas señalando donde van están ocultas en cierta forma y es estupendo para que no te pongan peros. Un abrazo.

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Gracias por la información de las etiquetas.

Lo que haré con el artículo es que lo voy a editar y añadir la traducción hoy.

Muchas gracias 😊

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You are a scammer a thief a criminal who is working for other criminals

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Hello everyone I hope you are all good and well today in this post is some of the evidence to prove my case

If you didn't know I've been getting downvoted for a long time on Hive

They have been trying to bully me with downvotes and words but it doesn't affect me I've been online for over 25 years

So I've dealt with people like this before it's nothing new

But what they are doing is bad Very badi joined steemit like everyone else thinking it offers freedom but I must say steemit offered much more freedom than Hive does

Everyone already knows I only post my own original content I have no need to steal anything from anyone

I've been labelled a lot of things on Hive 😂 by the biggest farmers scammers and downvoters

Actions speak louder than any words do especially when them words are coming from a compolsive liars

I will keep updating this post when I get time

kgakakillerg evidence

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https://hive.blog/hive/@ureka.stats/the-untrending-report-hive-downvote-analysis-16-09-2025-20250916181314

https://hive.blog/hivedev/@makerhacks/please-peakd-allow-me-to-completely-block-spammers-would-you-ever-vote-for-this

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Truth hurts doesn't it @hurtlocker 😂😂😂

💯 Original Content and comments downvoted for no reason Please read and view

@steevc please tell your friends to stop downvoting my original content please 🙏🏾

Blocktrades Aka @themarkymark Aka @buildawhale @punkteam @usainvote @gogreenbuddy @letsusbuyhive please stop downvoting my original content I'm not going to reply to your abusive comments as that is what you enjoy doing seems like you have a lot of free time

Please explain why you keep downvoting my original content 🤔 if you aren't blocktrades then why doesn't do something 😂 also why would you be sending all that Hive with buildawhale to alpha an account that is blocktrades wife 😂😂😂

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It's unbelievable that they downvoted this Goodbye Auntie R.I.P 🙏🏾

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Please Peakd, allow me to completely block spammers (Would you ever vote for this?) thanks for exposing yourself more @makerhacks

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Please tag me! I feel like my success is that I have found inner my happiness. I really do not need money, cars or relationships un order to be happy. Of course it brings out the question what is left? Dark side of this is that I don't want to do anything that doesn't feel fulfilling or spend time with people who I do not vibe with.

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Hi @pauliinasoilu! 👋

I have found inner my happiness... Dark side of this is that I don't want to do anything that doesn't feel fulfilling or spend time with people who I do not vibe with.

I don’t know, to me that actually sounds pretty healthy. Our time is limited, and being intentional about who we spend it with matters. The key is just staying open so we don’t close ourselves off from unexpected growth.

That is why I'm so grateful to get to know new and interesting people here in HIVE. I'll tag you from now on. Thank you! ☺️

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Thank you 🥰 happy to hear thant my way of being is not totally alarming. Thank you for the tips!!

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🤣 It's not alarming at all! 👍 And, you're are welcome! 😊

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indeed never give up try your best in live and your be a winner

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